My thoughts and adventures in an attempt to leave the shallow behind and find something a little deeper.
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Where has my wisdom gone?
Saturday, February 7, 2009
The Little Things...
Anyway, this week I've been reminded of some of the little things in my life that add to the overall sense of contentment I have been blessed with of late, so I thought I'd share.
1) Music. This one may not be so little really, but it's affect in my life can be subtle at times. I love music in all (or at least most) of it's forms. Anything that gets me humming along or tapping my toes is a welcome addition to my life. I'm the girl that sings along (and sometimes dances) to the music in the Grocery store. It makes shopping so much more fun, and to be honest, I can't help it. Even if I try...it just cannot be stifled! The music has GOT to come out! :)
I always have my iPod playing through little desktop speakers at work, but this week I did two things differently.
First, I started listening to my full library of music rather than playlists. Just set it to random and let it go. Some of the songs that pop up are slightly embarrassing, some are hilarious, but most are just pleasant little gifts. Songs I haven't heard forever, but liked enough to load onto my iPod at some point. They make me smile...and that makes my day so much better.
Second, I started listening with my headphones instead of the speakers. There were a few projects I was working on that required some focused attention, and I discovered that even with the music playing, I was more focused and got a TON done by blocking out the world around me with the music that, as previously stated, makes me smile.
There are definitely some downsides to this approach...it's not overly social, but I tend to be TOO social, so maybe a little restriction in that realm is not a bad thing. I also tend to sing along on occasion (ok...most of the time) and when no one else can hear what you're listening to, an unplanned public performance can to be a bit embarrassing. So far I think I've caught myself before anyone has heard my serenade, but it's only a matter of time before someone stops by just as I'm singing along to Fire by the Pointer Sisters (that one really gets me going).
2) A Garage. Ok, so if you have spoken to me, read my blog, or followed my Facebook statuses, you are aware of my severe disdain for the weather we've been experiencing here in Rhode Island. I'm not shy or quiet about it. It sucks. (sorry...no other way to say it).
HOWEVER, I did find something in the midst of the suckiness that made me grateful...the fact that through this entire nasty winter I have not had to clear my car of snow ONE time to go to work in the morning. I walks straight from the cozy warm safety of my house directly into my very own garage...no walking through snow and ice to GET to the car, no clearing snow and ice (or even FROST) off of the car, no warming up the car...it's WONDERFUL! I don't know how I lived the first 35 years of my life without one!!
3) Blue Skies. No matter how cold it is outside, when the sky is clear and blue it makes me happy. I think it may be a little bit of a reminder of home. I've always loved the intense blue of the Colorado sky. There are times that it is so amazing that it takes my breath away. Any small piece of that brilliance brings a happy jump to my heart. Recently the blue has had to work its magic through windows because as soon as I walk outside into the frigid wind the affect of the blue sky is negated by the impending frostbite of my nose, but at least it helps me get up the motivation to brave the cold when necessary.
There are plenty of other little things that make me smile...help me through the days that aren't so great...and make the great ones even better. I'm grateful for the little things.
Friday, January 30, 2009
Baby it's COLD outside!
I'm supposed to be studying for a certification test I have to take in 2 weeks, but my brain hurts, so I'm taking a break and using my blog as procrastination tool!
Before I get started, in case any of you are here to check on Andrew's status, his fever is down, and he's doing better. He's still not keeping any food down, but Brittany says he refuses to admit that he doesn't feel well. Little trooper/twerp. Thank you so much for your prayers and words of support for our whole family, and most especially for my little, bald Bob Amato.
Be sure to check out his website. He has posted some video messages there that are precious! http://www.andrewvanderploeg.com/
Life here in Rhode Island has been great save the weather...which I complain about on a daily basis. I've developed a truly pationate distaste for Winter this year. I can't ever seem to get warm!
I love my home, but I'm convinced that THIS trip into the world of mortgage slaves is supposed to teach me something about patience and humility. Three weeks ago my furnace died and I had to spend the weekend with space heaters keeping my pipes from freezing and a fire in my fireplace to keep me from freezing. Now I've got a brand new furnace, and it works great, but for some reason I'm still always cold!
The front of my house is north facing so it doesn't get any direct sun, which is only a problem because there is a huge pile of snow and ice on the roof that creates a disturbingly steady supply of water dripping on my driveway. Unfortunately, because it gets no sun, it turns to ice again almost immediately when it hits the driveway, causing a fantastic "ice rink" effect. I asked the HOA to do something about it multiple times with no luck, so the ice just continued to get thicker and thicker. Last weekend I had to take 4 running starts to get my car into the garage, so I decided it was time to to take matters into my own hands and get to chipping away the ice.
You can check out pics of the whole ordeal here: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=72534&l=ac452&id=714881782
Sadly, all my hard work has been continually undone since the minute I finished the job. Looks like I'll be out there chipping away again tomorrow! (another procrastination technique!)
The ice build up on the roof has also created a wonderful phenomenon known as an ice dam above my bedroom window. Basically the snow against the shingles melts during the day and then freezes when the sun goes down, expanding (as ice does) it's way under the shingles. When the ice melts again the next day it is UNDER the shingles and it leaks into the house. I've had lovely puddles of water in my window seat on randome days for a few weeks, but luckily there hasn't been any visible water damage, and the HOA has had contractors out to deal with the problem on the roof, so hopefully we are done with that issue.
Like I said, patience and humility! I really do love my home, and despite the cold I find all of the little adventures it's brought me rather humorous. Honestly, sometimes all you can do is laugh!
The nasty weather here has made me a bit more homesick for Colorado than usual. Friends and family there are continually notifying me of the temperatures in the high 60's...I think they enjoy being cruel! I did get to spend almost 2 full weeks home in Denver for Christmas, so I guess I can't complain that much. I'm a New Englander now, so I guess I've gotta toughen up! That and buy some warmer socks!